Friday, November 14, 2008

We tried to make a puppy but we ended up with a girl instead

Last week we got our ultrasound and the baby wasn't cooperating. Ashley drank pop and the baby was being fairly active but her legs were crossed the whole time no matter how much she moved around. I guess she's a little camera shy and who could blame her, if some stranger was trying to look at your goodies you would be too. However we got a bonus photo shoot because our OB saw signs of placenta previa and referred us to a specialist for a precaution. This was good because the not only did the specialist think the placenta was OK we got a 4D ultrasound which was awesome but at the same time the pictures make our little fetus look like a goblin. Our baby had a little fluid in her left kidney which could be indicative of some kind of problem so they're going to keep an eye on it when Ashley goes back in 4 weeks and we'll get another one. WOOT WOOT! We're so lucky we have friends way further along in their pregnancies with only one or two ultrasounds and we've already had five and more are on the way! So what Ashley's had to puke 100 times for each of them but too me its worth it although I would probably say Ashley would rather just not be barfing all the time. I am trying to deter the baby from making my poor wife throw up all the time by yelling out threats about painting her back porch red the minute she bursts forth into this world but she never listens to me. Any ideas on disciplining your unborn children? This is out baby girl waving at me I think she said "Hi Dad" but I'm not very good at reading lips.This is my baby girl getting ready to 'bust out of this mother'This is my baby girl giving herself one thumb up (and an arm, her comprehension is a little low) on her cannonball form
This is our girl doing a nice profile shot its more like one of those civil war photo poses notice the the sweet mustache isn't she so patriotic.
not to be confused with propaganda pictures of socialist dictators.



So now while we're waiting for our baby to cook and get a little cuter we have to find a good name. My criteria is I have to be able to use it when I'm happy and mad and it has to be fitting longer than toddler hood (which exclude 90% of Ashley's names)

Tuesday, November 4, 2008

Boy of Girl? That is the question


Tomorrow we're going to the OB and getting the ultrasound which tells us if our baby is going to be playing baseball of softball. The anticipation is such I'm peeing my pants at the anticipation, much like an exited young child opening up Christmas presents. IT'S THAT GOOD!!

So while your doing you civic duty today and voting make sure you vote for what we'll have and I'll tell Ashley to have whatever you guys come up with. (Just know that you'll need at least 2/3 majority because I will exercise my power and veto your decision if I don't like the results)

Friday, October 31, 2008

HAPPY HALLOWEEN!!

I love Halloween this year and I'm sad that I didn't put in my best effort carving my pumpkin (its supposed to be Skeletor) and who knows what effect Ashley was going for?




























Wednesday, October 15, 2008

Back to the grind....

Were baaaack!!! Sorry it has been so long since the last blog. Our last couple of weeks have been kind of crazy! Most of you know that I have had a trrible time with the morning sickness and was really struggling with keeping food or drink down, well about three weeks ago Tuesday I started to get worse than ever, I threw up over 12 times and could not even kep water down. Brandon was busy all daying taking exams so I finally reached my sister who drove me to the Emergancy room at Castle Hospital, I arrived at about 7:30 and stayed in the emergancy room until about 2am. When I was finally admitted to the hospital. My Doctor decided that it would be best to keep me in the hospital for four days to try to reintroduce my tummy to liquids and foods. The first 24 hours I was only IV fluids and then I was on a liquid diet for the next three days and then they slowly introduced solid foods again, well thins did not get better right away and I ended up staying in the hospital for two weeks. The doctor suggest being on a home IV becuase I was having a hard time keeping the medicine down orally, but things got better when I went home and I have been only getting better since I have been home. I still feel sick pretty much all the time, but nothing compared to the way I was.....

On the upside of things I went to see my doctor today and he did another ultrasound and the doctor pointed out the the baby was resting his little hand on his knee, the doctor and I both got a kick out of it and he said he had never seen anything like that before.... I know it might not seem that exciting, but it really made my day..... what a smart little baby!!!

AND....

In three weeks we find out if I should start shopping for pink or blue clothes!!!! YEAH!

ONE MORE THING....

hence the title of this post.... I AM GOING BACK TO WORK!!!! I start monday.... I am a little nervous about the long drive, but am excited to get outta the house.... I have been going nuts!

Tuesday, September 16, 2008

Introducing the newest member of the Family



No its not a gummy bear its another little bundle of nauseating goodness its a baby boy and what a boy! I know the Dr. said that was the umbilical cord but I'm not buying it. This was taken at about ten weeks and now we're going on 13. Ashley has been Pukey McGee pretty much the whole time but we're hoping she's turning the corner on this whole morning sickness thing so she can start getting chubby like a good pregnant woman. We're exited to be having our first baby in Hawaii , the due date is March 28th.
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Thursday, September 4, 2008

Update!!!

It has been FOREVER since I (Ashley) has blogged anything...so I thought it was time for a little update on what has been happening in the life of Frandsen in the last couple of months....

First off, CONGRATULATIONS ALICIA!!!!! She graduated in June, she was always the smart one in the family!!! Alicia started school in Idaho but was too cold so she finished up her last two years in Hawaii!! She graduated in Elementary Education because the ninos are her heart.


This is lil 'ol me on my Birthday!! As you can see my friend Alysha (not to be confused with the blood Alicia) decorated my car and so much more on my birthday!! thanks to everyone who made it such a special and not so scary 25th birthday!!!
Do I dare post a beach picture?? YES I DO!! this is my tribute to my parents visit to Hawaii!!!! they came for Alicia's graduation and stayed and played for a few weeks!! I miss them already.... this was us at Hanauma Bay... My dad was so burnt at the end of the day... (sorry dad!!)
And last but not least, on August 17 Brandon and I celebrated our 1 YEAR ANNIVERSARY!!! It went by so fast!!!! It has been the best year I am thankful to be married to such a wonderful guy who bends of backwards for me, esp. as of late.... I love you so much Brandon you are the best!!!!

Sunday, July 13, 2008

Clowns



Yesterday Ashley volunteered me to be a clown at our friend's kid's birthday. I have always been a little frightened of clowns and I wasn't too thrilled about doing it but I dutifully dawned a goofy outfit complete with wig cowboy hat and honking nose. This turned out to be a big mistake the children were all scared of me and it took a little while for me to regain the trust of my adorable little 2 year old friend Lillia even after i took off the costume. That's when I was wondering when was the last time I thought a clown was funny? The only clown I thought was funny was Homey The Clown, and that doesn't count because although he is dressed as a clown "Homey don't play that!" he was in fact the ultimate anti-clown. So if the only funny clown is one that hates clown things and beats kids with a stuffed sock we can safely say that the era of the clown is gone. scary.

Tuesday, July 8, 2008

4th of JULY!!! my kind of holiday




we spent the 4th of july attending the festivities at Scholfield army Barracks(we figured those army folks would know how to celebrate the all american holiday) Billy Ray Cyrus played a concert, they had this cool army band/history of america thing which was made entertaining with the aid of about 5 artillery cannons. To cap off a god night they had the biggest pirotechnic masterpiece (those military guys sure do know how to blow things up.) All in all GOD BLESS AMERICA!!
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Thursday, July 3, 2008

A good read in honor of the 4th of July

After returning from 2 year mission in Argentina where I recieved more persecution for America's sake than for the church's , I was ready to join the military mostly because I wanted to defend my country but at the same time I would be lying if a secondary motive of mine was to spite those home and abroad who loath us. To make a long story straight my dad told me to do college thing before I committed to anything and then I got married to Ashley who is against her husband purposefuly going into harms way. So needless to say, I have to find another outlet to show my patriotism.
Anyways back to the real purpose of this blog. If you're tired of the media putting as much objectivity into the upcoming elections as they do with American idol, this book is for you. If your blood boils by how ignorantly people in prominence along with the general public undermine our country and its culture, this book is for you. If you've ever wondered why it's considered taboo for you to show pride in your American culture as opposed to minority groups who are encouraged to be more proud of their foreign cultures than that of America to whom they should feel indebted to; this book is for you.
D'SOUZA the author of this book is a highly educated Indian (dot, not feather) immigrant who explains "What is so Great about America" (not just a clever title). Upon completing the book you will feel grateful to be an American and you'll get a new found respect for our culture while erasing the forced guilt that your teachers and media have heaped upon you, even before you understood what cultural diversity really was. In other words you'll know what sets America apart from all other nations. You'll understand why the some of the same people who hate America the most would immigrate here in a heartbeat given the opportunity was made available.
I give this book 2 thumbs up, WAY UP!! thanks dad for recommending it to me!

Monday, June 30, 2008

What's wrong with America?




I have purposefully refrained from bringing up my political views on this blog but with the 4th of July coming up I thought it was appropriate to indulge in a little ranting and raving and getting up on my soap box and throwing it down. If you don't like politics or hearing others point of view you can skip this one blog and I won't have hurt feelings I don't care if anyone even agrees with me, there is something therapeutic about sending my feelings out into cyberspace. Here are the top 5 things that have really chapped my goat this last year.

1.) Here in the temple view apartments many people show their pride for their home countries by putting their foreign flag on the outside of their doors or window, and I think that is great I have no problem with people showing pride in where they're from and they should because that is part of who they are, however when my buddy Nick was reprimanded by the apartment complex manager and forced to take his American flag down because it was deemed "offensive" and "disrespectful". This is utterly the most stupid contradictory thing I've heard in a long time. If you think the American flag is offensive or disrespectful why are you living here, and an many cases mooching off our government for sustenance.

2.) I don't know if anyone one else realizes this but the media keeps trying to tell us what we should be thinking. The so called "news" stations have ceased reporting news and instead replace the real news with these "expert" commentators who have a shared agenda. I know the war in the middle east isn't popular but the media doesn't help by only sharing stories when they are conveniently disappointing. No wonder the "average American" who's only education about the war consists of the little blips they've seen on CNN or occasional article in Newsweek think we should pull the troops out today. Its propaganda and I'm not buying it. When has Alecs Baldwin and Sean Penn's opinion mattered more than facts?

3.) How did it get so trendy to Hate America? I know the rest of the world does but within our own country, are you serious? Alec Baldwin I'm still waiting for you to get out of here and you can take your dismal disappointing Hollywood career and 2nd grade education with you!

4.) How did Barak Obama gain so much public favor? I don't hate him, I'm not even saying that there isn't a chance I'll vote for him. He's charismatic and a great orator, but at the same time he hasn't done anything! He has the motto "A change we can believe in" but I'm not seeing it. This sounds too much like the campaign platform of house democrats who promised change during the midterm elections and the media along with America just ate that up, but last time I checked almost two years have gone by and we're worse off now than we were then. Funny how that works out because the media really missed the mark on that one. I don't understand why it's OK to be hard on McCain but your a bigget for being hard on Obama (they are running for public office they both knew that would mean being under public scrutiny so it's OK if you criticize either one of them and if its because you want to be one of the 'good white people' don't worry statistically Obama will get more votes because he's black than people who won't because he is) McCain has to be flawless to even stand a chance angainst Obama seeing how the media is just ready to pounce him but Obama on the other hand is defended even when he's telling high school kids about his past drug use or his racially charged reverand (his former "spiritual advisor") with whom he spend 20 years in his congregation gets some of his sermons leaked, or the stupid things his wife says from a microphone in public gatherings. If McCain was involved in any of these shenanigans he would be put up there with people who eat their babies as far as public opinion is concerned. Google will even pull your blog if it is deemed anti-Obama.
All I want is a fair and balanced election for our new commander and chief, I want to know where the candidates stand on the issues and what their public record is sure knowing about their character would be nice too but I don't care what the celebrities think or what these so called political experts on TV's opinions are.

5.)I want an unbiased media and I'm not happy with the one which condemns a Republican government official for their infractions with the law but when its a Democrat somehow they drop off the word Democrat and just use the name of their position like governor or senator instead of Republican senator or republican governor. Half the time there isn't even any media coverage for the stupid things democrats say or do, here is one example.

If you haven't heard about the Massachusetts Democrat representative James Fagan going on a rant against child rape victims yet, its most likely because there was limited media coverage.
Here is what he said:
“Let me tell you why it’s so wrong, It’s so wrong because in these situations . . . that 6-year-old is going to sit in front of me, or somebody far worse than me and I’m going to rip them apart. I’m going to make sure that the rest of their life is ruined. That when they’re 8 years old they throw up; when they’re 12 years old, they won’t sleep. When they’re 19 years old they’ll have nightmares and they’ll never have a relationship with anybody. And that’s not because I’m a nice guy. That’s because when you’re in court, and you’re defending somebody’s liberty, and you’re facing a mandatory sentence of those draconian proportions, you have to do every single thing you can do on behalf of your client. That is your obligation as a trial lawyer.”

Is there anything that is chapping your goat?
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